Switches, Sadism, and Shiny Butts: Rope Journaling 5-24

The second night I wasn't going to stand around and wait for anyone or for anything to happen. There was a room full of hot, horny, kinky people and I was going to touch as many butts as I could. (Consensually of course.)

So the moment I walked into the dungeon I didn’t hesitate to oogle my hot friend C who was topless and covered in bruises from his busy weekend of bottoming. His dance card was full but I did get a hug, a noseful of his yummy smell, and to grab his butt. All in all a good start to the evening.

Soon after I saw M who I have a medium long history of doing ridiculous scenes with. More than once we've tied ourselves to each other until we ran out of limbs or rope much to the confusion of the rest of the dungeon and to prove switches have the most fun!

So when I saw him standing there in some shiny black latex I frolickedover to see if I could touch his slippery butt. He was more than happy to oblige. As we flirted and caught up a plan started to firm.

“Hey remember last year when I walked you around the dungeon while you were in your hood.”

“Yeah want to do that again?”

Like he needed to ask! He had on a latex hood and gloves and I had my rope out without a second thought. I tied a decorative but random chest harness that asymmetrically incorporated his arms into it. Then I added rope to his legs in a way that accentuated his butt and package so that he ended up with kind of a rope cod piece. It was pretty hot to my eyes and the fact he had half a hard on let me know he was enjoying himself as well. Afterall the only thing better than a latex butt is fondling a latex covered boner.

10 minutes into the evening and I was already having a blast. I really enjoy having friends that are funny, smart, and communicative. It makes casual play with on going negotiations possible, we have active consent with one another so that even though sometimes a year pases between when we play we trust one another to say “hi what are you in the mood for?” and just jump in. It feels sexy and safe. We can talk while we tie, it saves time and is super sexy multi tasking.

So I led M around the dungeon describing the sights and occasionally fondling him until we found an empty massage table.  I bent him over it to spank and play with him while enjoying the slightly muffled moans and sighs through the latex mask. The hood took away the ability to see his reactions or grab his hair but the hotness of playing with this sexy faceless object more than made up for it.

When he was breathing heavily I guided him to stand upright again, running my hands down the rope covered latex. Deciding his hands were probably ready to be put in a new position I untied enough of him to tie his right arm to his leg and put a simple rope cuff on his left.

“You know there just isn't enough butt fondling  going on.” I joked.

Gamely he turned to present his, but I used the rope handle around his wrist to turn him back in my direction and back my own ass in its tight dress into  his palm. I didn't need to see his face to sense a smile and his attentions to my butt gave me an idea.

“Thanks, much better, and this also gives me an idea to mess with people by being switchy.”


“Yeap. Also I'm in the mood to get tied up. So…”. I wrapped the remaining rope from his wrist around my waist to finish my sentence. Then I added some tension to the rope so that his hand was trapped cupping my ass.

“Ready to walk around some more and confuse people?”


This time when people noticed us walking together a good number of them did a double take to take in that I'd tied M to me so that he had to walk arm in arm while holding each other’s butt. A few of our acquaintances laughed in that “that's so Emily” kinda way. So mission accomplished. As much as I was enjoying the forced butt touching I did eventually release M, knowing we both had other play dates.

While waiting for my play date, B, I watched a few friends get into trouble and a number of rope folks from out of town do scenes, taking in their techniques and enjoying their new and interesting way of doing things. B was enjoying his time with another Top so I wasn’t going to rush him but I was getting antsy waiting and watching all this sexy play happen.  So I was thrilled when he walked over to me half loopy from his last scene and asked if I was ready to throw around some rope.

We had a pleasant and sensual scene full of moans and giggles which is kind of our thing.  It was just what I needed to get some of my ropey sadism out on someone who very much enjoys it. After a cuddle and a promise to meet up for more of the same soon, I headed home, feeling like I got what I was hoping for from the evening.

Butts touched: 3. I call that a win.